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(1) nearly every family has members who don't get along. (2) but for some, these disagreements grow into painful feuds that can last for years. (3) fortunately, there are strategies that can heal even the most difficult family feuds. (4) the first step is to get people to share the blame for their disagreement. (5) family rifts are rarely caused by a single person. (6) for healing to take place, then, everyone involved must accept responsibility for his or her part in the conflict. (7) the second step is to increase the communication between family members. (8) writing a note, making a phone call, or attending a family event allows people to express their feelings to each other. (9) such actions show care and rebuild damaged relationships. (10) a third step is to set realistic goals. (11) a family feud that has lasted for thirty years will not be solved by a single talk. (12) however, that talk may lead to a truce and build a foundation for healing.
9. what is the second major supporting detail in this paragraph?

q. everyone involved must accept responsibility for his or her part in the conflict.

b. communication between family members must be increased.

c. writing a note or making a phone call can rebuild damaged relationships.