Iwant to know the use of had have in sentence mean to say both r use in sentence like i had have dinner know why we use had have and when we use

Marla tells robin that some other women who were up at night saw the special forces heading into iraq from kuwait. when he asks why the women were up she replies, "had to go you know women did that? " why does she ask him this?

Acomplex sentence contains . one subject and one verb

When i was young enough to still spend a long time buttoning my shoes in the morning, i'd listen toward the hall: daddy upstairs was shaving, in the bathroom, and mother downstairs was frying the bacon. they would begin whispering back and forth to each other up and down the stairwell. my father would whistle his phrase, my mother would try to whistle, then hum hers backi drew my buttonhook in and out and listened to it -know it was "the merry widow." the difference was, their song almost floated with laughter. how different from the record, which growled from the beginning, as if the victrola were only slowly being wound up. they kept it running between them, up and down the stairs where i was now just about ready to run clattering down and show them my shoes. what is the effect of the parallelism used in the above excerpt? it establishes the rhythm of a duet to echo the song. it expresses the same ideas. it mirrors opposite ideas. it is a paradox.