We should start changing ourselves if we want to change others?give reasons

No, you should not change yourself for others to change, make them change not yourself well if you have a bad attitude or bad behaviour then yeah you should change but let me tell even if you change for someone else to change they may not change and some might change but not all will change. If it is to help someone then yeah change yourself do good deeds and stuff like that so if the other person is doing bad when that person will see you helping people showing kindness and etc. That person may change.

Hope this helps you!

Explanation:

love, how my life is right now. you can be loved and can love others. sometimes you dont feel loved right now, dont worry, someone out there is loving you while you are away.