May someone please help me ?

Hey guys! i've got an exercise where you've to find out the correct sentence in each pair. 1) a-we were tired and thirsty, so we stopped to have a drink at the cafè. b-we were tired and thirsty, so we stopped having a drink at the cafè. 2)a-if your computer freezes, try to turn it on and off again and see if that . b-if you computer freezes try turning it on and off again and see if that . me! it's urgent!

Which verb from is used to indicate the perfect progressive tense

What theme of antigone do the above events reflects