Are you a boy or a girl

iTs BeTtEr To AsK sOmEoNe ThEiR pRoNoUnS nOt GeNdEr DuE tO tHe FaCt ThAt NoT eVeYoNe IdEnTiFiEs In ThE bInARy oF mAlE oR fEmAlE

i go by he/him and shrek is my husband :3))

the anecdote makes readers feel sorry for the man’s lack of heritage, then reminds readers that the man has an equally valuable heritage.