Analyze how does sanders reconcile his understanding of what men's lives are like with the perspective of his female friends?

In his writing "The men we carry in our minds", Sanders explains that he always had a picture in his mind that men had to work very hard everyday, while women just stayed home. Sanders experienced all this because of the year he was born. Sanders didn't understand that when he was a child and so Sanders wanted to grow up living a life as a girl because he thought it was much easier.
Eventually Sanders met women in college who had a different picture of men in their mind. He noticed and actually realized that not all men had to work so hard as he thought. He saw that women do have a hard job just as men do. They have to work as hard to keep a house clean and take care of children. They have responsibilities just as men do.