"Talking in this story is not a source of real communication; it's a way of asserting or defending the self. Consequently, we learn less from the literal words the characters use than the allusions that build up around them.” What does this mean?

What is the main problem with the following critique? “you put some thought into it, but you obviously do not care much about the topic you are presenting.” a. it is not ethical. b. it is not constructive c. it is not specific. d. it is not behavior focused.