Which lines in this excerpt from act iii of shakespeare’s romeo and juliet best show lord capulet’s oppressive and authoritarian nature?

a. capulet: things have fall'n out, sir, so unluckily,
that we have had no time to move our daughter:

b. and so did i: well, we were born to die.
'tis very late, she'll not come down to-night:

c. capulet: sir paris, i will make a desperate tender
of my child's love: i think she will be ruled
in all respects by me; nay, more, i doubt it not.

d. and bid her, mark you me, on wednesday next but, soft! what day is this?