Often, people give gifts that are tangible or material. However, in this poem, the gift is one of words. How does the
message of the poem influence your opinion about what makes a good gift? Cite evidence from the poem as well as from your personal
experience to support your opinion.

i'm pretty sure you can use the word uproar

i think the correct answer would be adjustments in life roles.  this causes for one to adjust or change totally his/her career or lifestyle since the present is not beneficial to the life role he is at. for instance, you became a mother you would of course stop going to malls and enjoying life outside. you would be staying at home taking care of your child.