Make a list of the reasons you want the family to leave Singhet, go with Martha, or stay at the hospital. Think of statements to support each of your reasons, and list them under each reason. You can
also include reasons you disagree with them. Then number the reasons in order from most to least
important.

you didn't list the options but im guessing it's resolving contradictions

based on the biblical principle proverbs 16: 32, i agree with the author of the passage "better is it that it takes longer to be angry than the strong " to the extent that i share the philosophy that the nobility of heart demonstrates the strength of a person. those who are very proud, get angry easily and show their anger toward others are really weak, but those who are noble and do not constantly obfuscate or contain their feelings of anger, are strong people

as for symbolic actions, the narrator's tearing down the wallpaper in an attempt to find the "woman" in the wallpaper represents her struggle to retain or regain her sanity.   the wallpaper has been part of her confinement and by her tearing it down, she is freeing herself from that confinement.