As much as humans like to control their own lives, there are many aspects that are outside of our control. for example, we do not choose the families into which we are born or the places where we grow up. the same is sometimes true of friendships. some friends we choose because we identify them as people who are similar to us and because they offer us something we want. occasionally, however, we make unexpected friends. for example, a young person bumps into someone at the library who is crying because she has lost an important paper she was writing for school. as a result, the two become friends tell the story of a time you made an “unexpected” friend and learned something important from that friend. in your response, be sure to explain how the friendship came about and the ways in which this friendship taught you something. and learn that people through tough times is at the core of strong relationships.