Heather has just started classes at the local college, and is feeling really overwhelmed with all her new responsibilities on top of her old responsibilities. she wants to have a conversation with her husband to ask for more in this transition. what should she not say during the conversation? “i know that my new schedule has affected all of us, but we decided that this is a really positive change for me and our family. can we talk about ways you can support me in this? ” “i appreciate your support of my decision to go back to school, but i’m having trouble juggling everything right now. it would be really for me if you could cook dinner for the kids the nights i have class.” “i’m feeling overwhelmed trying to manage my new schedule with school, home, and family life, and could really use extra support right now.” “i am feeling really stressed because you don’t out around the house.”