Sankhuwasabha, Nepal
Date: 28th April 2020
Dear Alon,
I am writing this letter to tell you about the culture of my country as you mentioned earlier in your letter that you are planning to visit my country. So this letter has all the information about the culture of my country.
As you most likely are aware, Nepal is known for its Unity in Diversity. Every last part of Nepal has an alternate language, diverse food, distinctive dances, distinctive dress, and distinctive blessings from Mother Nature. Nepal is also a multilingual and multicultural country. Such diversity is often astonishing for newcomers. Therefore, you must be very careful not to show any sign of disrespect to the varied people and culture. Here are some tips on what to do and what to avoid while you are in Nepal.
To show gratitude and respect, use both of your hands rather than one when giving or receiving something, even money. It’s seen as a gesture of respect.
Remember not to point with a single finger but use a flat extended hand especially to indicate a sacred object or place.
Among Hindus, avoid touching women and holy men. In Nepal, people especially women, do not normally shake hands when they greet one another. Instead, they press palms together in a prayer-like gesture known as “Namaste”. And ” Namaste” is widely preferred among the Nepalese.
Don’t eat with your left hand. People consider it an uncivilized act to use the left hand for eating.
Wear full, long-sleeved dresses. As many people in rural Nepal are not used to westernization, you must be careful about what you are wearing.
Never eat beef in front of Hindus & Buddhist. Beef is strictly prohibited among both Hindus and Buddhists.
Do walk around Stupas clockwise, so that the outer walls are always on your right. If you encounter a stone wall covered with Tibetan inscriptions, do the same. Walk past with the wall on your right (and don’t take any of the stones)
These are the general list of things you can and can not do while in Nepal. But it is completely subjective and also, depends on where you visit. If you spend your time at Kathmandu valley, or at Pokhara you will find locals much westernized that your activities may not affect them. But not everywhere in Nepal you will have that freedom. So, while you appear in front of the locals be careful with what you do. And connect to them with gradual communications and greetings. I hope this Do’s and Don’t help your Nepal trip.
I anticipate your visit.
Awaiting your reply anxiously.
Yours Faithfully
Srijan Khadka
