If you decide to practice abstinence and your partner does not like your decision, what question should you ask yourself?
do i really want to be with someone who does not respect my feelings?
is he or she going to tell everyone my decision?
should i change my mind since i really don’t want to lose him or her?
am i being a total drag?

Here's an answer that is a little more serious. A relationship is supposed to make both of you happy. Does yours?

If you have really different views that are irreconcilable, you likely are not meant to be with each other. Not in this day and age. If you were living in the middle ages, the question would not exist. Now it does. So ask.

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