This is for school and im supose to do a self reflection on my relatinship with my parents, but I don't kno what to think and i need your help. See I want to go to the military but my parents want me to go to college. There also super stricts on me but not my other siblings. They say its in my head but my siblings agree. For example my sister was talking to this stranger from China and was gonna meet up with him. She got in trouble and got her phone taken away for 2 weeks, I on the other hand dropped my phone off the side on my bed and it made a huge noise. Got my phone taken away for six months. -_-, they said i never earned it back. Lots of other situations like that. I was anorexic as well and a normal family would see that as a wound and care for you. My family teases me saying stuff like "I don't want an aneresic daughter again." and "Well on of our daughters is already a sociopath." my mom called me a sociopath. I told my conular this and she said its normal so I really want to know... is this normal?