What is the term for a person who likes a certain thing, (lets say cheating for example) The person likes it a lot themself, but does not want it happening to them personally?

A27 year old female client, who weighs 130 lb, claims to be able to lift 85 lb for 10 repetitions on the bench but only completed 6 repetitions. using the correct response for your client's 1 repetition max for bench press, what would her perceived rating be with regards to bench press strength?