you could ask yourself what is the most painful thing in love and u might say losing them but thats not true the most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much and forgetting that you are special too or u ask why is true love painful love itself does not hurt. It is growth that hurts the ego that stings. Each transformation is painful because the old situation is being left behind for the new. For example when a relationship ends we feel hurt ur hopes and dreams have crashed and u feel lost and lonely wondering what comes next. i always ask myself is love worth the pain and for a long time i shut myself out saying no its not worth it that gettin hurt over lose is useless but i soon came to see that love is worth the pain but if pain is all you seem to receive in any relationship than that love is one-sided. Love is going to hurt at some point. it is worth the pain when it truly is love. When true love is in place, you find two people not one willing to give whatever is needed to make love last. i rlly wish i gave myself this advice a long time ago when i got hurt and kept going but i didnt now i can only hope that u wont make the same mistakes from me