When a person's thoughts about his or her ideal self matches thoughts about his or her real self, the person is experiencing

Congruence

According to Carl Rogers, congruence is the accurate match between self-concept and reality. Someone who is experiencing a match between his or her real and ideal self, and who is also trusting of their innermost intuitions and urges is a fully functioning person.

the answer would be a)henry grady because he came up with the term "new south"

intimacy, passion and commitment are the components of a interpersonal relationship emphasized in the triangular theory of love by robert sternberg.

the triangular theory of love says love can be comprehend as this componest form the vertices of a triangle.  

intimacy relates to feelings such as of closeness and connection;

passion relates the drives that brings people together, as physical attraction.

commitment relates to the being in a long-term relationship.