What does Senior state as being a much more 'realistic aim than happiness' when it comes to raising kids? Can this goal apply to non-traditional families? To child-care workers?

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Explanation:

There is no specific handout, or master technique neither is there any curriculum for it whatsoever. Happiness, self-confidence and positive esteem can be the byproducts of other things, but they can’t really be any sort of goals unto themselves.

That the 'realistic aim than happiness' principle in raising kids was effective in senior state doeasn't mean make it a universal accepted one.