Be difficult people hard to make oneself

Being difficult to people hard to make oneself
i don't know if that's a question or a conversation started but here is something for you .
being a difficult person to make ones self is and can be helpful when needed to get yourself on track but not all the time inner growth helping relax your mind in better you grow to be the person you are not by being hard on yourself and closing opportunities you might like but wont take being a difficult person .

The answer should be b