According to deborah tannen in "you just don't understand: men and women in conversation," which statement is true about gender and listening behavior?

a. men and women listen in the same way.
b. women listen less to men than men listen to women.
c. men ask more argumentaive questions or seek to puncture holes in the other person's position than do women.
d. the differences represent negative motives on the part of both men and women.