A client who has a history of displaying passive aggressive behavior has a pattern of being late for counseling appointments or cancelling at the last minute. As a result, the counselor has set a limit with the client specifying that the client will forfeit the appointment if the client is more than 5 minutes late for an appointment. Today, the client has come to the counselor's office more than 10 minutes late, at which point the counselor has reminded the client of this limit. Which response would be most consistent with this client's diagnosis