People or things that can prove one side's version of what happened

The answer is evidence. It is a data offered to a court or jury in evidence of the facts in issue and which may contain the testament of witnesses, registers, papers, or objects. This backing may be tough or weedy. The toughest kind of evidence is that which delivers direct evidence of the truth of a declaration. 

because you know you're not ugly; you just crave attention so you post about it here and say to people in an attempt to maintain your ego.

where is the map so i can