Truong seeks power and control, while thayer seeks independence and privacy. horney might say that truong is and thayer is aggressive toward others; assertive with others anxious; neurotic moving toward others; moving against others moving against others; moving away from others

Truong seeks power and control, while thayer seeks independence and privacy. horney might say that truong is moving against others and thayer is moving away from others, clearly it is known that those who seek control, need to demonstrate power to others, and that makes them act forcefully towards others, quite the opposite for those seeking privacy, they try to be as far away as possible and thus have more independence