When myron and phoebe met, they saw each other as potential relationship partners because they saw each other as similar in physical attractiveness. this notion is probably due to

a couple of factors. First, Myron and Phoebe probably already had a chemistry which each would find attractive. It would likely also be that they hit it off automatically because of that chemistry. Second, they may have both been searching for a partner and already knew what type of person they wanted. The both apparently were looking for the same type person.