In the text;in my moms shoes says: the authors writings are rendom and not in a date order. How does this help the reader to understand the grief process?

Explanation:

The random order of describing the events make the impact slightly less enforcing than if it had been in the correct order. The story is about a child Chow who lost her mother at a young age and then the author shares the experience of walking in a pair of her mother's old shoes. Since the dates are not in chronological order, hence it can at times makes the message a bit blurry or difficult for readers to grasp

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