advice a grade 12 learner on how to find a balance between the new found freedom and responsible behaviour​

When you have newfound freedoms and still want to be responsible you must set yourself some ground rules as to what you won’t do and whenever you go against your rules punish yourself in some way like doing extra work or not going out

That’s really weird? ?

Unfortunately, this is something i can't you with, because i am not you. but i can tell you what to do.so think about times when you met with people with a different ethnic group as you and describe how they acted and also describe time when you may have showed your own feelings and they way you see things about life.    i hope i you somewhat,